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Easton
Mountain News
Fall 2009 Edition |
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Events at Easton Mountain
Queer Spirit Camp 2009 a Huge Success
Thoughts from a Work-Study Program Participant
Board of Directors' Corner
Autumn in the "Garden of Easton"
Spirituality and the Arts
March of Two: A Different Kind of National Coming
Out Day Recognition
Be a "Best Friend" in 2010
How You Can Help
Easton Mountain’s Mission |
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Upcoming
Events at Easton Mountain
We've got lots of exciting programming this
fall! There's Happy,
Healthy, and HOT! along with The
Art of Powerful Living, both taking place October
23rd through October 25th, followed by our Halloween
Weekend October 30th through November 1st. If you
choose, you may attend
just the party on October 31st. Then we've got Altered
States of Grace from November 6th through November
8th. The following weekend is Cosmic
Orgasm with Joe Monkman - November 13th through November
15th. And don't forget about New
Year's at Easton!
Please check out our online
calendar to learn about all the workshops offered at Easton
Mountain.
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Queer
Spirit Camp 2009 a Huge Success
65+ people descended upon Easton Mountain last July for the
4th annual Queer Spirit Camp. These 18-23 year old LGBT men
and women arrived on a Monday, only knowing maybe one or two
other people. By the following Sunday, they knew everyone
as if they had known each other for years. There were lots
of workshops and activities throughout the week that helped
build team leadership among the group and to tackle some tough
issues facing young LGBT men and women today. All in all,
these young men and women went away with new skills and confidence
to become great leaders in the LGBT community. A few of the
participants wrote letters about their experience at Queer
Spirit Camp. Here they are:
Being an NYC baby, I'm used to noise, constant chaos, having
to fight for my beliefs, and fighting to be accepted.
Then someone offered the chance for me to get away for
seven days. I hesitated at first on saying yes because
I don't like change. But reluctantly, I got into a van of
10 rowdy and loud people and we began a journey. I didn't
know at the
time that this journey would change me as a growing woman
for a lifetime.
After hours of being lost and irritated we pulled into QSC
and I opened my eyes to tear
jerking beauty. Things I had only seen on TV; the clean
air, the quiet and calm were,
surprisingly, music to my ears. I was introduced to many
dierent people, some weird,
some not. People I never would have spoken to in "real"
life. Now we have thirty minute,
in depth conversations about SpongeBob. I was offered workshops,
a real bed, and real
food. People who knew nothing about me were there to redirect
my thoughts of a
savage mentality toward something friendly and constructive.
They gave me tools to use
in real life. QSC became my week in heaven away from my
weeks in hell. I will forever be
grateful for my experience here. I hope QSC is around for
a long time to be able to show
other young adults who are lost like I was, a better way
of thinking.
I have met people who are non judgmental, who expect nothing
except for you to be
yourself. This I will never forget. And I just want to say
thank you to Easton's directors for
giving me the opportunity of a lifetime.
~Bella
I approached Queer Spirit Camp skeptically, I honestly
wasn't sure what to expect, but I needed a week away. In
one short week I grew more than I have in months. I ended
up having the experience of my life. I'm normally a quiet
person, I live inside my own head, and it's usually pretty
cramped. At Queer Spirit Camp, it just felt like... all
the pressure was off. I was invited out of my own world,
and into a community of really cool kids (and really awesome
facilitators). I learned so much, but it wasn't anything
like school. I talked to people about our unique experiences
and it was just amazing. No walls or barriers, everything
about the environment facilitated openness and understanding.
Now I'm a part of the Planning Committee and the Webmaster.
I do it for two reasons: First, I love QSC, so giving my
time and energy to help make next year's experience as amazing
as this year's makes me feel good. Second, volunteering
lets me go to Easton once every two months, and it always
seems to be when I need it the most. I get to reconnect
with all the amazing people, and realign my mind and body
as well. QSC is like a guiding beacon in my life, it brings
me to the safe harbor of Easton Mountain. I am so grateful
that the program exists, because it enriches my life so
much. Please support and make it possible again.
With Love,
-Matt
Now here's something you may not know - Queer Spirit Camp
is entirely underwritten by Easton Mountain. Participants
are only asked to pay $30 for the entire week - and that's
only if they can afford it. Nobody is turned away from this
event (until the beds are all full, anyway). While we are
currently working on obtaining grant money to help fund this
much needed programming, we don't have funding secured yet
- and in this economy, there are no guarantees that we will
obtain funding. Please consider making a tax deductible donation
to help make next year's Queer Spirit Camp touch the lives
of another 65 young, LGBT men and women. You can make
a donation online using our secure online form - be sure
to specify in the comments section that this is for Queer
Spirit Camp. Thanks in advance for your generous donations!
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Thoughts
from a Work-Study Program Participant
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
If there is a way to give thanks to you in a way that is
equal in value to what you have all given me this summer,
I have not yet discovered it. In the nine weeks I have spent
at Easton Mountain, gratitude has quickly evolved to become
my strongest mantra and personal friend and in whatever way
I might be able to, I wish to share that with you. I came
to Easton Mountain after eight months of temporary cognitive
and physical disability, barely unable to finish the semester
and longing for a space in which I could simply rest.
The Easton Mountain community, both permanent and transient,
has given me much more than that: it has given me a passion
for service and a limitless number of ways in which I might
indulge that passion. It has been an ineffable pleasure to
serve each and every one of you this summer – invariably,
each and every person that I came in contact with here has
been my guru and led me to new spaces within community and
within myself. You have each led me to a clearing of abundance
– one that prior to this summer I did not even have
the awareness to dream of.
In nine short weeks, I have come to view, appreciate, and
serve Easton Mountain as my primary home and the safest place
I have ever known. Ironically, in my retreat to the Mountain,
my once weary soul has found a place to rest in the everyday
routines of service and spiritual growth work I have adopted
here. Yet again, I find myself leaving Easton Mountain a distinct
feeling that I remain indebted to its infintely generous spirit;
however, I also leave with knowledge of my responsibility
as a valued community member and co-creator of this Sacred
space and all that it contains.
It has been an honor and a privilege to serve you and it is
with great pride that I take this growth and experience back
to my home community. Know that you have inspired change in
this world in your commitment to Easton Mountain and that
that change is spreading. Namaste.
Warmly,
Ben Colburn, Work Study Summer '09
Brown University Class of 2010
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Board
of Directors Corner
by Blair Voyvodic, Board President
Easton Mountain has become a spiritual home for many people
whose lives have been touched and enriched by their experience
here. Founded ten years ago by John Stasio on a visionary
hope and a prayer, we are now growing toward a more collectively
held organization. The board was formed six years ago to establish
Easton Mountain as a charitable corporation. The role of the
board is to support the work on the ground through long range
planning, fundraising and shouldering legal responsibility.
Snap shots of some board members: Our new treasurer, Phil
Benoit, brings both delightful enthusiasm and expertise as
an accountant with a prominent law firm in Manhattan where
client tax matters are his specialty. Dave Nimmons brings
a wealth of talent and experience having been the president
of the Lesbian and Gay Community Center in New York City during
the years when the center established its home on 13th street.
Mike Kutter has been spearheading the groundwork for a capital
campaign to secure Easton’s stability and thriving into
the future. He is also heading up the Marketing committee
and has developed the successful and fun New Year’s
auctions.
We have a strong core of expertise and are now looking for
community members to join our finance, development and marketing
committees. This would be a great opportunity for anyone wanting
to get more involved and is ready to take on work supporting
Easton Mountain. And there is the perk of getting to know
some great folks as a fringe benefit!
We need people with a positive, cooperative spirit and a
commitment to Easton’s mission and success. Experience
in organizational development, grant writing, events planning,
marketing, finance or other aspects of non-profit organizations
would be a great asset. Contact me if you want to get involved
at blairvoy AT yahoo DOT ca.
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Autumn
in the "Garden of Easton"
As I get ready to mulch the garden beds for Winter it is
a good time to reflect back on the last few months up there.
Except for the tomato and potato blight that hit most gardens
in the North East, the garden and Mother Earth were good to
us! We harvested peppers, eggplant, corn, cabbage, kale, peas,
pole and bush beans, pumpkin, summer and winter squash, strawberries,
blueberries, turnips, carrots, kolerabi, many kinds of lettuce,
swiss chard, broccoli, cauliflower, brussel sprouts and many
different kinds of flowers- cosmos, sunflowers, morning glory,
dahlias, calendula, coneflower, nasturtiums, zinnias and marigolds.
A special thanks goes to John Ruffo for donating a statue
of St. Francis, Kevin Merry for giving us a statue in the
likes of Michaelangelo's David, Andre Cusson for gifting us
a Hindu sacred statue, Jeff Haber for the donations of many
gardening tools, our neighbors down the road for providing
the garden with straw from their horse farm, Gregg Orifici
who gave plants and timeless hours of work in the garden,
Moss for organizing a Blessing of the Garden ceremony in August
and adding artwork to the sacred dome, and to all the other
residents and vounteers who gave their time and energy and
who just enjoyed the garden’s nurturing energy!
May the spirit of Permaculture continue!
Peace and Light,
Leo Skye
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Spirituality
and the Arts
by Sunfire
I'm writing this having just returned from
a day in The Valley of Fire - which is a state park near Las
Vegas, NV. Here erosion has turned multi-colored sandstone
into fabulous shapes - animals, faces, monstors. Reflecting
on this, I am reminded that in both spirituality and art the
outer and the inner worlds become one. The spiritual seeker
brings the outer world into himself to bring about transformation.
The artist brings his inner world out for all to see. John
Ollom, who will be one of our facilitators during next June's
arts retreat, calls his method of working "Internal Landscapes"
- and he will be teaching us this powerful tool for bringing
our internal world into movement art. The retreat - which
includes poetry, drawing and video as well as movement art
- is called "Expressing
Your Inner Self."
In the first book of Hebrew scriptures, Genesis, we are told
that God created man in his own image. I suspect that the
writer knew that there was inside each of us an urge to create
-- and this to him was evidence of our being made in the image
of our creator.
My own spiritual path has included explorations of music,
drawing, painting, dance, theater, video, poetry, fiction,
and essays. In my work, I hope to inspire the same awe and
wonder that I felt today visiting The Valley of Fire, and
I hope to iinspire you to follow a sinmilar path if you so
choose. To me, the essential message of Easton Mountain has
always been, "Yes, you can!" -- You can be "Happy,
Healthy and Hot"; you can be "Living Full Out";
and you can be "Expressing your Inner Self." Come
join us in this exploration.
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March
of Two: A Different Kind of National Coming Out Day Recognition
by Bob Pileggi
It was a beautiful day for a walk. The sky
was blue with occasional puffy white clouds; the sunshine
warm with a slightly cool northeast autumn breeze; golden
leaves falling into the grass. Thousands joined together today
in Washington, DC, for a particular kind of walk. An “organized”
one with a purpose. “Loosely” or “grassroots-ly”
organized, some might say. But a walk with a purpose, nonetheless.
To remind the President, the Congress, the nation, and perhaps
a few startled DC tourists – that LGBT people are here,
are human, and are equal.
My boyfriend and I went for a walk today, and it had a purpose
as well. We exercised our inalienable right to enjoy a beautiful
day. It was pretty much that simple. Though quickly I realized
that the effects were no less powerful than thousands on the
mall in DC.
We went to a park in the suburbs of Philadelphia. It’s
called Norristown Farm Park – a farm-turned-park in
the suburbs, if you can believe it, with lovely walking trails,
streams, cornfields and an abandoned tractor or two. The sun
was warm, walking next to the beautiful open fields, reaching
up the hill to a picture-perfect barn and the spacious blue
sky – a bird aloft, catching waves in the wind. A tear
came to my eye because it was such a perfect day, and I felt
so grateful to be sharing it with someone so sweet and loving.
Without thinking about it, I took his hand. And in that moment
– that simple, thoughtless moment - we perhaps did as
much to remind the nation that we are here, human and equal.
For we were certainly not alone.
Two chatty women out for their daily speed-walk
zipped by us with a hello. An older gentleman walking his
dog; he didn’t really meet our eyes but said hello,
nonetheless. A mom pushing a stroller, being pulled by an
energetic dog on a leash and two other kids in tote, “hey
guys,” she said.
My boyfriend grew up on a farm, and while he didn’t
get much into the farm-like labor, he certainly did leave
with his love for the apparel, or at least the fun affect.
So he was wearing a woven cowboy hat, plaid shirt and jeans.
(I was the “normal” one in my Gap clothes –
we were in the suburbs, afterall.) I was feeling playful and
as I noticed red, orange and then yellow leaves falling near
us, I’d tuck them into his hat above the brim. Much
more interesting, I thought. And I got to see the pretty leaves
every time I looked over into his beautiful, smiling eyes.
I’m guessing his internal designer was quite active
and wanting to change or eliminate the leaves from his carefully
chosen outfit (he is an interior designer, after all) since
once in a while he’d mention them. Though he patiently
played along and left them there. I guess he likes me.
A six-year-old was walking in the opposite direction with
his two parents, brother and sister. He veered directly toward
to us, briefly pointed and said, “You’ve got leaves
in your hat.” A simple observation to which we replied,
“yes, we know!” (and I quickly reassured my boyfriend
that the kid was not making fun, but simply observing). In
that moment I knew we had changed the world. We were out for
a Sunday stroll in the park, with an autumn bonnet, just being
ourselves and “minding our own business” (of fully
being our affectionate selves) and now there’s a six-year-old
boy who knows that he, too, could someday walk down the lane
hand-in-hand with his boyfriend. And a few leaves in his bonnet.
(And you’ll note, the kid made mention of the leaves,
not of the two guys holding hands.)
The other kids who saw us, the speed-walkers, the older gentlemen
and the others I’ve forgotten, not to mention the folks
driving along the road when the trail came close…they
all saw us. We were “here, human, and equal” –
out enjoying the day, just like them. Sure, one of them might
have thought – “oh, those queers, they’re
everywhere, and I’m tired of getting used to it.”
But that’s not my business.
My only business today was being myself. With someone I care
about. As we went for a Sunday stroll in the park. Holding
hands.
Being ourselves. Everywhere we go. Everywhere. Sitting close
together at my niece’s birthday dinner with my family
the other night. His arm around me at a friend’s housewarming
party (with mostly heterosexual people). A few leaves in his
hat when he goes to work. Or me correcting a client that when
I get married it will be to a “handsome man” rather
than a “lovely lady.”
Being ourselves. Everywhere. There is no greater gift to
ourselves than honoring our truth. And no greater gift to
the world than fully expressing the truth of who we are. It’s
why we’re all here. To remember who we are and to share
with the world as we do.
Sure, there are times to “protest.” But the rest
of the time, “attest.” Live your life following
your heart and spirit. Be yourself. More than any marches,
picket signs or angry demands, this always has and will continue
to open other hearts and spirits. Simply being ourselves –
no editing, no downsizing.
Harvey Milk implored us, “You must come out.”
So go put the leaves in your bonnet. Put a picture of you
and your partner in your cubicle at work. Get the hotel room
with the king-sized bed instead of the two queens (no pun
intended). Just mind your business of being your true self.
And the world can’t help but to eventually respect,
if not love you. Self-respect has the undeniable, contagious
effect of reminding us all that we can all be “here,
human and equal.”
Today, my boyfriend and I spent some time holding hands in
the Norristown Farm Park. Not for the cameras of national
television, nor for the President or Congress. Rather for
ourselves. Because, indeed, it was a beautiful day for a walk.
This article © Bob Pileggi, October 11, 2009. Reprinted
with author's permission.
Bob Pileggi is an Interfaith minister who guides people to
discover more of who they really are and how to live more
fully. Next month, he will be leading a retreat entitled Altered
States of Grace which aims to "transform and expand
your aliveness and gratitude." Bob has worked for LGBT,
HIV/AIDS and women’s rights local, regional and national
non-profits for twelve years, and his photography has been
published nationally. Bob now freelances providing spiritual
counseling, coaching, meditation practice, transformational
breathwork therapy, workshop and retreat facilitation, and
wedding / ceremony officiation. www.bobpileggi.info
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Be a
"Best Friend" in 2010
Pay one fixed amount and come to as many Easton
Mountain events as you want in 2010! Click
here for more details on this offer!
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How
You Can Help
Much of the work at Easton Mountain is done
by volunteers who come here to work for periods from three
hours to three months. If you would like to schedule some
time to come help out, please contact
us.
Donations also keep our doors open. The amount
we charge participants for coming to events does not cover
all our costs. We rely on the generous and giving spirit of
many who find Easton so near and dear to their heart to come
up with the rest to cover our costs. Please consider becoming
a monthly donor - we can arrange to have any amount you'd
like charged automatically to a credit or debit card on the
first of the month each month. Or, if monthly giving is not
a choice, consider making a one-time contribution to help
ensure Easton will be here for years to come to touch and
heal many more lives.
As we plan out next year's calendar, we still
have some weekends open in February and March, and weeklong
stretches pretty much throughout the winter. If you know of
an organization that might be interested in renting our space
for an event or meeting, please have them contact Sheldon
Hartman at 800-553-8235.
Just come to our programs! Our guests are
the reason we exist! And be sure to spread the word - let
others know how important Easton is to you and how much you
think they'd enjoy it as well. Check back to review our calendar
of events periodically over the next month or so - we'll
be adding our 2010 programming over the next few weeks. Add
a stay at Easton Mountain to your 2010 calendar!
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Easton
Mountain’s Mission
Easton Mountain’s mission is to sponsor,
develop and present workshops and other learning activities
that promote wholeness, health, and peace; and to foster the
growth of spiritual community, respectful of all religious
and spiritual traditions, that supports the integration and
healing of all people.
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